this will be the little argument that i have whenever i face with boyfriends that are very insecure, whether is my personal experience or my friends..


Argument No 1:

-sometimes the guys may feel insecure maybe because the girl fren is too wild or have some bad records (like me).. so this shows that the guy is very concern about his girlfriend, which is good in a way u noe.. dun girls like to be pampered and the attention? this is the best boyfriend that one can ask for.. and since the guy is so concern (in a bad way it would be insecure), then the girl shud do smth abt herself.. like maybe tone down abit, change her way of living abit, pay more attention to the boyfriend.. like this then the relationship will last.. both parties giving in and taking..

-if the guy is insecure abt his girlfriend, well, he might as well go die.. in a relationship, is all abt trust.. if the guy is insecure that means that he dun trust his girlfriend.. since there is no trust, i always believe that this relationship will not work out anyway, so why cling on and let the guy control u and also have to constantly assuring him that nothing will go wrong and that he shud trust u.. and mind u, is ur girlfriend we are toking here, not ur wife.. if wife u control or feel insecure then thats ur problem.. but now, this girl has no obligations to listen to ur every word.. so stop acting like a faggot and give her some freedom..



Argument No 2:

-the guy always be there whenever the girl is.. oh well, so loving.. this shows that the guy cannot live w/o the girl.. even if it means that they have to be seconds away from each other.. whenever the girl met up with her girlfriends, the guy will also tag along even it means that he is the only guy there.. see! this means that this guy have the paitent to actually tahan those girly talks and regular bitching.. so nice so sweet! this kind of boyfriends are really hard to come by!

-wah lau!!! with him around, we cant even share secrets among each other or even be ourselves.. why he always have to come along? took our fren away from us never mind, we dowan to gei gao (calculative) with him, now we wana have some private moments with our frens he also wana join in.. damn irritating.. @$^&*%!

Argument No 3:

-ask her to reach home by a certain time when she is out clubbing oso good mahz.. like she wun tire herself to much.. can sleep early and replenish her beauty os not bad.. and as the night goes on, the music in the club oso not nice.. somemore staying in the club for too long oso not good for the skin.. this guy oso power.. helping is girlfriend to replenish and maintaining her beauty..

-WTF!! need to reach home that early?!?! then like that might as well dun come out and club!? if i were the guy, i rather sleep early and in the meantime wait for my gf to reach home and leave me a msg! what for i have to restrict her? she got her own life and i got mine.. she can enjoy hers and i can enjoy mine.. like that not good mehz? i really dun understand why guys have to be like this.. and if this kind of things happen to me, i make sure i kick his balls real hard before heading to the club to meet my frens!


well, no offence though.. but is just that i can really get pissed off by guys who are very insecure.. and i hate it whenever this kind of things happen around me.. maybe im just being selfish.. but i always believe that one has the right to choose how to live her own life..